Patch taken from:
https://github.com/JuliaPackaging/Yggdrasil/pull/8671

diff --git a/Makefile b/Makefile
index c7a2b7f7..0c509288 100644
--- Makefile.orig
+++ Makefile
@@ -140,7 +140,7 @@ LIBFLAME_SO_OUTPUT_NAME := $(LIBFLAME_SO_PATH)
 ifeq ($(OS_NAME),Darwin)
 # OS X shared library link flags.
 SOFLAGS    := -dynamiclib
-SOFLAGS    += -Wl,-install_name,$(LIBFLAME_SONAME)
+SOFLAGS    += -Wl,-install_name,@rpath/$(LIBFLAME_SONAME)
 else
 SOFLAGS    := -shared
 # Linux shared library link flags.
@@ -670,7 +670,7 @@ ifeq ($(FLA_ENABLE_MAX_ARG_LIST_HACK),yes)
 	$(SORT) $(AR_OBJ_LIST_FILE) | $(UNIQ) > $(AR_OBJ_LIST_FILE).sotmp
 	$(CAT) $(AR_OBJ_LIST_FILE).sotmp | xargs -n$(AR_CHUNK_SIZE) $(AR) $(ARFLAGS) $(LIBFLAME_A)
 ifeq ($(OS_NAME),Darwin)
-	$(LINKER) $(SOFLAGS) -o $@ -Wl,-force_load,$(LIBFLAME_A) $(LDFLAGS)
+	$(LINKER) $(SOFLAGS) -o $@ -Wl,-rpath,$(BASE_LIB_PATH):$(LIBFLAME_A_PATH) -Wl,-all_load $(LDFLAGS)
 else
 	$(LINKER) $(SOFLAGS) -o $@ -Wl,--whole-archive $(LIBFLAME_A) -Wl,--no-whole-archive $(LDFLAGS)
 endif
@@ -686,7 +686,7 @@ ifeq ($(FLA_ENABLE_MAX_ARG_LIST_HACK),yes)
 	@$(SORT) $(AR_OBJ_LIST_FILE) | $(UNIQ) > $(AR_OBJ_LIST_FILE).sotmp
 	@$(CAT) $(AR_OBJ_LIST_FILE).sotmp | xargs -n$(AR_CHUNK_SIZE) $(AR) $(ARFLAGS) $(LIBFLAME_A)
 ifeq ($(OS_NAME),Darwin)
-	@$(LINKER) $(SOFLAGS) -o $@ -Wl,-force_load,$(LIBFLAME_A) $(LDFLAGS)
+	$(LINKER) $(SOFLAGS) -o $@ -Wl,-rpath,$(BASE_LIB_PATH):$(LIBFLAME_A_PATH) -Wl,-all_load $(LDFLAGS)
 else
 	@$(LINKER) $(SOFLAGS) -o $@ -Wl,--whole-archive $(LIBFLAME_A) -Wl,--no-whole-archive $(LDFLAGS)
 endif